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40. Confusion by Approach Assumption

You’re confused because someone misinterprets why you started talking to them, assuming a deeper or different motivation than you intended

You make casual small talk in the break room, and the person starts acting like you're becoming close friends. Or, you ask a quick question, and they think you’re trying to pitch something or make a deeper connection. This confusion stems from mismatched expectations about the purpose of initiating a conversation, often shaped by context, past experiences, or social norms.

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